Extend caring words towards someone you care!

A scientifically proven and universally accepted fact about human beings is that men are physically strong but emotionally weaker! They are in constant need for emotional support. It is also proven that they succumb to situational pressures and demanding roles more easily than their counter part. They easily fall prey to different lures. They need more external support and help to fight out personal issues. I do not wish to sound bios but the studies conducted in many developed and developing nations give out these results, which have been published in a daily in UK. The write up here is not about being feminist, but it is sincere effort to describe that how much love and care men require to live a normal life. They need love, care and attention like any normal kid. A survey shows that comparatively more men get addicted to drugs and alcohol than women. These findings are backed by an explanation, that women typically engage in house oriented activities like managing house and childcare, thus are left with rare opportunity to become addict.


Based on emotional needs, it is very important to convince them to accept the problem and get them admitted to a rehab. This is a very tricky job, but a family can very well perform it. Many rehabs or social services institutes have special programs for educating the families on how to talk to an addict, what to say to support someone, what should not be said at all etc. Once primitive tasks of getting a loved one accept the problem, next step is to admitting them into a rehab. Various rehabs run expert recovery programs with understanding individual needs and belief. These rehabs are homes away from home. The environment is very much supportive to quit the addiction. Here the families are also trained along with the addicts to support in living a prolonged sober life. They are trained on what to say loved one in rehab. Many web-sites also have various FAQ sessions which address to this question. Basic objective of the talks carried out at rehab with loved ones should be around being positive, thinking positive and feeling positive. The newly sobers need feel secure once they are out of rehab to retain their sobriety, at this point the families can extend warm words and welcome them happily into a new life. An embrace from loved ones works wonders than medicines.